From Fear to Faith

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She walked afraid. Each step forward a victory as the powers of darkness raged war around her. Her hand drew back, unprepared for the cold steel handle as she pulled open the door. She stopped as fear gripped her and her feet refused to move. Demons grinned at her hesitation. They knew she wouldn’t go through it. She always made promises to herself but she never kept them. Suddenly she heard the kind, gentle voice of an elderly woman, “Welcome, dear. I haven’t seen you here before. Let me help you find a seat.” She smiled at the older woman. Her voice reminded her of her grandmother. She followed her through the double doors and slipped beside her on a pew. She nervously tugged at her skirt. For the first time in her life she was embarrassed by its shortness. The woman patted her hand and directed her attention to the front of the church.

Listening attentively, her heart took in every word the man of God was preaching. He spoke of rest. A rest only found in Jesus Christ. Her soul was weary. She longed for that rest. But how could this Jesus give her that rest? The man of God spoke of sin. She knew her own sin well enough but he also spoke of Jesus’ love. Love enough to die on a cross for all who would believe…for her if she would believe. How could she believe in this love? No one loved her. Her mom was a drunk and her dad nowhere to be found. Men confessed their love to her but only to use and abuse her later.

A tear slipped from her cheek then another and another. She wiped them in embarrassment. No matter how hard she stuck her nail in her palm, she couldn’t stop the tears. They began to sing “Jesus Paid It All.” She glanced at the woman beside her. She wasn’t singing but her head was bowed and her lips moved rapidly in fervent prayer. She couldn’t take another moment of this agony.

“Lord, now indeed I find
Thy pow’r and thine alone,
Can change the lepers’ spots
and melt the heart of stone.”

“But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ-by grace you have been saved…” Ephesians 2: 4,5 (ESV)

She walked afraid but to the altar she fearlessly ran.

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For the Young Mamas Out There

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Young mama, I have experienced your joy when you have made the announcement “We’re expecting!” Your face radiant with the pregnancy glow that new mamas seem to have. For some that glow turned to sadness when God ordained to take your baby home before you got to hold him or her. I cried with you when you grieved. But your faith, young mama, outweighed your loss and you trusted through your tears. Once again hope returned but you waited a little while longer to share the news. That pregnancy glow returned along with a little waddle when you walked. Your stomach grew and so did your appetite. Nine months later, with your husband at your side, you gave that final push and the baby for whom you prayed burst into a wail which was a beautiful song to you.

The next weeks seemed a blur of sleepless nights, take-out and endless diaper changes. The laundry piled up and so did your feelings of inadequacy. Young mama, don’t ever doubt your calling to motherhood. God chose you and your husband as the perfect fit for the child He has entrusted you with. Lean on God and His word to help you get through those I-just-can’t-do-this-anymore moments.

Suddenly a year has passed, then two and three. Some young mamas may decide to homeschool. If you have the discipline and dedication it takes, I commend you for your desire to teach your child. But young mama, homeschooling is not for everyone. Don’t put a burden on yourself you were never meant to bear.

Your family has grown. Now there are John Deere tractors and little girl dress up shoes under your feet, endless loading and unloading of the dishwasher and that mountain of laundry in front of the washer keeps growing. Your quiet time with the Lord is like your child’s missing sock-you just can’t find it. Young mama, don’t lose the one thing-the One Person-that you need to sustain your weary heart. A few verses read on the toilet are better than days-then weeks- without His living water to refresh your spirit. Your children need to see a mama that fears the Lord. So model that before them through Bible reading, prayer and teachable “God” moments found in the beauty of a sunset or the roar of a lion.

Young mama, treasure each moment. From the special to the mundane. Time will pass quickly. Suddenly they will be all grown up. Keep your eyes on Jesus. His yoke is easy and His burden is light. In Him you will find the rest and peace every young mama needs.

Happy Mother’s Day!

When You Just Want to Punch Something

my-helpI stared blankly at the screen following the words of a hymn with my eyes. I couldn’t sing anymore. They were words that my heart didn’t feel. Some say you are supposed to sing anyway, but I am an all or nothing person and if I’m not feeling it, I’m not singing it. Right now, it is not well with my soul and the ancient foe is working his woe. Thoughts of what ifs and whys prevail. Blaming myself, not God, for many things in my life lately.

Yesterday I went through my friend Denise’s stamping items. We always had a fun time making cards. We even managed to make a few together while she was suffering with cancer and enduring chemo. She has been gone over a year now. My hands will hold the rubber stamps she used to make cards that blessed and encouraged others. May I use them in the same way.

I’ve learned through my biblical counseling studies that there are stages of grief: Denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. I’ve never denied or bargained, but lately I’ve really just wanted to punch something. Mostly because of circumstances that came about because of her death. As if somehow ramming my fist through a wall would make it all better even though I know it won’t.

Last Sunday our scripture reading was Psalm 121:

I lift up my eyes to the hills.

From where does my help come?

My help comes from the Lord,

Who made heaven and earth.

He will not let your foot be moved;

He who keeps you will not slumber.

Behold, He who keeps Israel

Will neither slumber nor sleep.

The Lord is your keeper;

The Lord is the shade on your right hand.

The sun shall not strike you by day,

Nor the moon by night.

The Lord will keep you from all evil;

He will keep your life.

The Lord will keep

Your going out and your coming in

From this time forth and forevermore.

Who is my help? Yes, the Lord almighty. He keeps me. I know that truth in my heart but sometimes I still want to punch something.